Sunday, December 14, 2008

Out of Town

Hello from Oregon. I write from my parents’ home in Oregon. We drove here on December 3rd for some family bonding in the realest sense. December 4th my family, aunts, uncles, and cousins, some who I’ve not seen for twelve years, met at the Portland Temple to do vicarious ordinance work for my grandmother, Daphne Elizabeth Dewar Choate, known to her grandchildren and great-grandchildren as Tama, who passed away in May of 2007. We have missed our Tama but she was with us that night in the Temple. It was a holy and memorable evening and I thought I’d never stop crying for joy. I could not imagine feeling more happiness at one time without being consumed. Two days later, however, I discovered I had not yet reached my threshold. Saturday, December 6th, two days after his wife’s Temple work was performed, my 91-year-old grandfather, Forrest Toby Choate, our Boppa, was baptized and confirmed a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I cannot articulate the beauty and power of those extraordinary and monumental events. I can only thank Heavenly Father for these amazing blessings.

8 comments:

The Qian Family said...

Heather, how amazing! I long to feel what you are feeling---that knowledge and faith that those who've passed on are still with us. Thank you for sharing your testimony of these things.

Tish Solomon said...

THat's incredible! I am just thinking of the time we spent in Oregon, and your wonderful family. Glad you get to be there for a while:-) Please send them our love!! - Tish

Jamie and Erin said...

Wow! What a neat experience! I got chills on my arms reading that! Hope you have a merry Christmas!

Heather said...

What choice, choice experiences. Hope your Christmas was also lovely. Were you in Salem through Christmas? (I'm obviously a bit behind...)

Melanie said...

Heather, did you know that I come from a long line of Choates on my dad's side? Maybe we're related somewhere in there (course, I'm adopted into that side - but still!).
Thanks for sharing such a beautiful experience.

the hipps said...

Heather, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! I wanted to at least say it here, incase I don't get a hold of you today. We love ya!! Good luck with everything going on this week, we're going to miss you guys!

holly b said...

What a special experience to share together. Definitely one to cherish.

Happy late birthday! I thought of you on the day and almost had my act together enough to send you an email or something, but alas! hope you had a good one!

Ana said...

Hi Heather,
Thanks for posting the information about your family on your blog. I was wondering whether you might share some more information with me. Is Forrest Choate Tobey the son of Berkeley and Virginia Tobey? The reason I am asking is that Berkeley Tobey (1881-1962)married a famous person, Dorothy Day, about whom I am doing some research. Any family records you may have of this marriage between Berkeley and Dorothy which lasted on a brief time would be gratefully received.
Many thanks,
Ana